Men, Myself and God is more than a blog — it’s a safe space.
Men Myself and God is a place to explore your own voice. Sure, I write a lot about my failed relationships. But beyond that, it’s a safe space where you can feel whatever you’re feeling. It’s a personal development portal where you can connect with like-minded souls (via the comment section). It’s the place to ask yourself, “What would I do if I loved myself more?” and then get to work finding out the answer. I have a coaching program, a monthly telephone sermon, and I’m going to add some classes pretty soon. Men Myself and God is a more than just a blog. It’s a safe space to be and love yourself.
These posts are spiritual lessons for secular people. This is not a Christian Blog. I wouldn’t even describe this as a religious blog. The “God” in the title throws some people off, but here’s the truth: sometimes I curse. Sometimes I write about sex. Sometimes I use this space to justify the spiritual nature of Kim Kardashian’s existence. I’m pretty f*cking random, but everything I write is infused with inspiration, positivity and love. Religious folks are more than welcome. I just want to manage expectations…
There’s a method to my madness. I share quite a bit. Some of my posts might even seem really…well…personal, but if you walk away from this blog thinking that these posts are about me, then you should probably re-read them. My stories are a trigger for your stories. My pain is a release valve for your own. My basic rule of thumb is if I cannot find the lesson in a personal story, then I won’t blog about it. This, in a nutshell, is my framework. It’s pretty broad and frees me up to write about my poop.
If you want to go deeper, you can hire me to coach you. If you browse the archives long enough, you’ll know I go pretty deep. I share deeply personal insights, and I probe you to think deeply about your own life. If the only way we ever connect with one another, is through my blog posts, that’s fine BUT, if I am a life coach who is dedicated to helping others live more love-centered lives. If you want to work with me one-on-one, you can apply for The Untitled Love Project, a 3 month coaching program that probes clients to figure out what they would do if they loved themselves more fully. For more information click here.
I want you to know you’re not alone.
On more than a few occasions, I’ve thought about changing my writing style. I felt like I had to be less vulnerable and more of an expert. I felt like maybe I was putting “all my business in the streets.” Then, I reread some of my posts and actually felt comforted by my own words. That was a nice moment. I decided to keep writing as myself – imperfect, crass, and a little bit broken — because we’re all in this life thing together. And most days life cannot be summed up with 5 Ways to Get Happier Right Now! So, for better or for worse, I blog as myself. If you judge me, it’s cool, but mostly I hope you feel a little less alone. There’s someone in the trenches with you. 🙂