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MEN, MYSELF

MANifest Destiny: A Little Optimistic Visioning :)

SO I decided to post twice today. Like I said…I love V-day and I love love. Sue me. ;-)

I’ve touched on all of my favorite Valentine’s Day topics recently ( self-love, loving your friends, opening your heart/forgiving, and self-worth), and I don’t have anything new to say at the moment. So, instead, I humbly share my top-secret lady love-vision with you, and I lovingly challenge you (and myself) to enjoy all the love in your life, WHILE clarifying your own vision for the love you desire.

Enjoy…

He is a man. A man’s man. An honest man. A handsome man. A man whom I desire. A man who walks into the room and ignites my heart. A man who supports me — all of me — the best and worst parts of my…self. My man is a balm — a salve — an ointment that makes life a little bit less painful. A man who teaches me how to feel safe. A man I can trust enough to relax. He is a romantic man. A man who spoils me and sweeps me off of my feet. I am constantly surprised and I am open to receiving. He takes me on adventures — in our living room, in our backyard, and across the globe. A man who makes me laugh so hard I could throw up. A man who is honest — spiritually, emotionally, and physically present. A man who stretches me…as I stretch him…and we grow together. He is a man with whom I feel a soul connection. A man who is available. A man who scares me in the most constructive way — in the way that challenges who I am and fosters who I am becoming. A good father for my children. A good leader for our household. A good partner for my soul…for our team…for our tribe…for our empire. A man who is deep and philosophical — a thinker. A confident man…secure in his desires and comfortable with the life he is choosing. A creative man — one who understands his own power and ability to create his future. A man who is ready to be my husband — who can help me feel ready to be his wife. I am ready, willing and able to be this man’s wife. A man who loves, honors and supports the artist in me. A man who occasionally reads my work but is never intrusive. A man who sees me clearly and loves me unconditionally — who helps me deepen my relationship to myself. A shepherd…a confidante…a partner…a friend.

This is the man I will marry.

May your reality and your vision always align.

What are you MAN or WOMANifesting?

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About P. Braithwaite

Patia Braithwaite is a Brooklyn-based relationship writer who is obsessed with the point where spirituality and romance connect. She has over seven years of journalistic experience and an MFA in Creative Writing. Her Print Credits include: Yahoo.com, The Huffington Post, Bounce Back, The Coral Gables Gazette and SingleBlackMale.org. She is also the founder of The{inner}Workroom, a transformational coaching firm that helps clients remove the things that are blocking their true desires.

Discussion

3 Responses to “MANifest Destiny: A Little Optimistic Visioning :)”

  1. I think I want your man lol just kidding but that man is out there I could feel it in your description. As for me I want a man who wants to have play fights and laughs with me wildly in the night. If he loves me he loves my son. Because I have a son I would only marry a man I would want my son to be like. This man is fine and bearded. He is my friend and aims to be God’s friend. He holds my hand and wipes my tears for those tough days. I can’t help but cry a bit as I write this bit because the longing and visualization is just that deep. He name unknown is out there and that hope is absolutely lovely.

    Posted by Uria | February 14, 2013, 9:47 pm
  2. Oh and just to put it out there He Reads!!!!!

    Posted by Uria | February 14, 2013, 9:50 pm
    • I’m sorry I’m JUST replying to this. Reading that was soooo powerful for me! I can almost see your man out there in the wings…preparing himself for you, just as you are getting prepared for him! Thanks for sharing! I apprciate your comments and honesty more than you know!

      Posted by P. Braithwaite | February 21, 2013, 3:45 pm

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