“We don’t normally face our fears willingly. Usually, God has to woo us into the desert. We are either chasing love or some other desire, and we find ourselves in the midst of a situation in which we have very little control. And when we lose control, we go into a mild form of trauma. … Continue reading
I am a huge believer that emotion lives in the body — trauma, grief, nervousness and pain live in our limbs and muscles. Muscle memory. Scar tissue. Some people get headaches when they are upset. I get the runs when I’m nervous. Our entire bodies yell, scream, and shout when we cannot open our mouths … Continue reading
My sister-in-law is a yoga instructor. She’s good too – I can vouch for her. Over the summer, we did sunset yoga on her rooftop, and it was single-handedly the best class I’d ever taken. She has a way of making you feel like you don’t have to strain to find the pose; the pose finds … Continue reading
I have a secret: I’ve never believed in marriage. People find this odd because my parents appear to have this wonderful and successful marriage…I never feared them getting a divorce or anything like that. Yet, for a long time, I just didn’t believe in the institution. It seemed too permanent to me. How can I … Continue reading